When we write about a person
we should be aware that by doing so, we subject the person not only to our own personal thoughts but to criticisms by other persons. We can not stop others from interpreting in their own way what was written. It’s already out there for public scrutiny, might as well put a title “WELCOME TO HIS/HER WORLD”.
One little information, blown out of proportion, not even complete, not even first hand suddenly people turn into Einstens.
Practice restrain, we don’t control other people’s thoughts and who the heck still believes that “what’s on tumblr stays on tumblr”.